Thursday, May 15, 2008

Jelly's Family Night of Light

We've always done fairly well with Family Home Evening, but I will be the first to admit that we're MUCH better at family activities than we are at lesson nights. I am also prilled (pleased and thrilled, NOT proud, thank you, Chapmans) to tell you that we've been improving steadily on the lesson front.

So when Jelly asked last week if she could do Family Home Evening for this week, I said, "Sure, sweetie!" because I knew she could. Then, in true Jelly style, she promptly got involved in something and forgot about her plan. When I asked her early on Monday how things were going for Family Night, she said something like, "Oh, great! I just need to go find a Friend!" Translation: Forgot all about it, but no worries!

Jelly is the keeper of the back issues of the Friend magazine at the Woody hacienda, so I don't know how many she looked through. Soon she came out of her room with the February 2006 issue. She had it open to the Family Home Evening Ideas inside the back cover. "Mama," she asked, "do you think this will work?" And she pointed to idea number one.

Now, anyone who knows me or who has just peeked into our living room from the vantage point of the front door knows how I (and by extension, ALL the Woodys) feel about lighthouses. 'Nuff said for now.

I read the idea, and told her that I was sure she would make it a wonderful Family Home Evening. She said, "I can do that! But I need a game." I quickly fished around in the game closet in my brain and came up with, "How about a flashlight game?"

In case you're in a hurry, let me just say that she did a truly outstanding job! My mama heart just about burst with joy!

If you have a bit more time for blog reading, here is a transcript of Jelly's agenda for our Family Home Evening, held at 7:30 p.m. on Monday, 12 May 2008.

Family Night
Opening Prayer: Doodle
Song: I Have a Family Here on Earth (p.188) (directed by Jelly)
Read "The Lighthouse" (p.2) (Daddy)
Read "Lost in a Cave" (p.42) (Mama)
Do Treasure Puzzle Hunt.*

* Turn ALL the lights off after this story.(An arrow points to "Lost in a Cave.")

Song: A Happy Family (pp.198) (directed by Doodle) (Note: Jelly had us substitute our own family names to personalize the song.)
Closing Prayer: Jelly

Dessert: Goldfish (because they swim in the ocean near lighthouses, of course)


To prepare for the Treasure Puzzle Hunt, Jelly drew a picture of our happy family inside a circle of light surrounded by darkness. She made the clothes we were wearing match what we were actually wearing that day (down to the colonial girl costume donned by Doodle just because she felt like it). She cut the picture into puzzle pieces, and then hid them, with clues leading from one to the next in true treasure-hunt style. "And some of the clues even rhyme, Mama! And Doodle loves puzzles!" I wish I had a picture of Jelly's ear-to-ear grin to post here!!

It was an excellent night! Our discussion about the light of Christ and the light of His gospel was fabulous, Doodle had wonderful fun (trailed by Jelly, just in case she needed help) on her flashlight treasure puzzle hunt, and the goldfish ended up swimming in an ocean of chicken noodle soup that was enjoyed by all.

The Doodle wants a turn to plan next week's Family Home Evening. I can't wait! :o)


At Thu May 15, 09:57:00 AM PDT, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I just had a great feast of reading. I was about 4 blogs behind and had a lot of catching up to do. My jaw is on the ground. You're amazing! I sure wish I could have been there for Jelly's FHE, and I love the girls lapbooks. Whoosh! Grandma NanZ

At Thu May 15, 09:19:00 PM PDT, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Know why I love being an aunt? It's watching my nieces and nephews grow and grow and grow. I love what Jelly and can't wait to hear about Doodle's FHE. Keep up the great work! Aunt From Simi, east side. :)

At Fri May 16, 09:27:00 AM PDT, Blogger Lian said...

What a great idea for FHE - flashlight treasure hunt. Been reading your older posts too. I like the lap books. I really need to learn how to make those. I'm gonna blogroll you so I can come back and visit.

At Wed May 21, 02:40:00 PM PDT, Blogger Vanessa said...

How cute is that. Love it. I really love how you let her take the lead and still didn't loose your cool when you found she had forgot. I need to try that some more. YOu had great faith and with a little help you guys had a great time. Im so happy for you.

At Thu May 29, 11:39:00 PM PDT, Blogger Woody said...

One of the reasons I love my Sweetheart is that she instinctively knows when her kidlings need correcting, and when self-correction is sufficient. I suspect she's been using those skills on ME all along. I just can't prove it yet. ;-)

Mr. Woody


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